Want me to review something for you? Need to ask me about a certain dildo? Want to tell me something nice? Have ideas on how I can improve my blog? Want to advertise on my site? Something else?

♦ My name is Blacksilk and I’m the owner and writer of Being Blacksilk, a UK-based sex blog. If you’d like to get in touch with me for any reason, whether you’re a reader with questions or suggestions or whether you’re seeking to contact me professionally, you’re very welcome to email me at Thank you.

Below are some specific details on some of the reasons you might want to contact me:


I am a respected and established sex toy reviewer who has reviews for several manufacturers and retailers. You can see my list of reviews and toys owned to get an idea of both my reviewing style and my current collection. If you want to see the sort of toys I’m interested in – or perhaps are kind enough to consider buying me one! – please take a look at my Lovehoney wishlist.

If you’d like me to review one or more of your products, please get in touch via email! I will consider reviewing an item if you can provide me with a free, non-returnable sample of that item and if it is made of safe materials (no jelly, nothing porous). If you’re willing to let me choose, within reason, the product(s) I want to review, I’ll be especially keen to work with you.

Please note that I am a reviewer living in the UK,  although my US and worldwide audience is also significant.


Being Blacksilk accepts paid no-follow advertising in form of both text links in my sidebar blogroll as well as banner ads higher on my sidebar. My sidebar and blogroll appear on every page of my blog, so they have high visibility. My prices are in line with the “industry standard” for sex toy blog banners and links at my Google Pagerank, which is 3.Advertising is either bought upfront by month or block of months or there is a discount for buying a year at a time.

If you have any questions or comments, please don’t hesitate to ask. I am very open to negotiation. ♦