Review – Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo

Disclaimer: I was provided with a free Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo by Bondara in exchange for my honest review. Click any image to embiggen.

♦ The Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo from Bondara is a handmade and double-ended dildo which is my very first metal toy. That in itself was very exciting and coupled with the shape of the dildo it made me very eager to try out this beautiful toy.

The dildo comes in a hinged, velvety black box (2″ deep, 5″ by 10″) with two gold-coloured metal clasps. Although the surface of the box feels and looks lovely, it does attract fluff easily, so it may be best kept in a drawer.

The box opens to reveal the Luxury Steel Dildo in a moulded foam inlay covered by black satin. The inside of the lid is made from the same satin material. The padded inside of the box is perfect for safely storing such a hard and heavy toy and the aesthetics of the box are elegant, making it perfect for a gift.

NEW TO METAL?

Whilst there’s likely no-one who worries about breaking metal toys like some worry about glass ones, metal and glass do share some similar properties when it comes to sex toys. Like glass, stainless steel is body-safe (provided you have no particular allergy) and a non-porous material, meaning it can be sterilised easily by boiling it or using 10% bleach solution. This means that stainless steel toys can be shared both between partners and between orifices. As with glass toys, stainless steel should last a lifetime if it is treated well (no cleaning it with a scourer!).

Again, like glass, metal toys can be easily worked into temperature play. In fact, the Luxury Steel Dildo almost makes it easier to engage in temperature play than not as it’s very cool. In the winter, it is blimmin’ freezing straight from its box! Don’t panic, it also warms up via body heat quickly. Just warm it in your hands or between your thighs first. If temperature play is your intention, it can easily be cooled or heated.

Lastly, be careful with yourself. Metal is a hard and heavy material; this toy does not flex, this toy does not give. It would be fairly easy to get a bit overzealous and bruise or knock yourself while enjoying the Luxury Steel Dildo. I found it important not to get much lube on my hands or the handle, as the slipperiness makes the heavy toy hard to control. If you’re swapping ends midway through, you might want something nearby to wipe off the toy. On the plus side, its unforgiving nature makes for some very intense and pleasurable sensations, especially if you like to apply lots of pressure.

THE LUXURY CURVED STAINLESS STEEL DILDO 

The Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo is an absolutely beautiful toy. It has a wonderful, simple aesthetic and a very modern look. The metal is smooth and polished, which not only helps the toy enter and move inside your body (very little lube, if any, is needed for the small end), but it looks gorgeous too. My pictures very likely don’t do it justice and they certainly won’t convey how it feels to the touch: cool, sleek and icily smooth.

It measures 10.5″ along the curve and 8.5″ tip-to-tip, making for quite an intense curvature. The G-spotting balls on either end are 1.2″ diameter (the small end), and 1.7″ (the big end), which makes for a bigger size difference than the numbers immediately suggest. The shaft is 0.8″ diameter in the middle, but gently widens as it reaches each ball. It’s worth bearing in mind that this toy will feel bigger than a silicone toy its size because of the unforgiving material. It won’t squish with your body.

It’s also heavy. The Luxury Steel Dildo weighs just over 1kg and it’s a very solid hunk of toy. It’s certainly one I’d give the Weak Wrist Warning: if you have any conditions which affect your arm/wrist/hand strength or mobility, you may want to consider the weight of the dildo before making your decision.

I don’t have any particular conditions and on its first use it made my wrist ache from thrusting. But that’s not really what it’s for and I soon learned how to use the toy better. It doesn’t just come with a G-spot curve; it has a learning curve too. The best way to use the Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo is not so much to thrust, but to let it find your G-spot and then use small movements and its own weight to help you move it back and forth. With a thrusting motion (as you might expect from an ordinary dildo), the weight is a hindrance, with this small (almost rocking) motion, the weight works with you to stimulate the right places. It’s something that takes a bit of getting used to, but working with the toy is key.

The curvature for the G-spot works very well and very quickly, it just slid right in and the small ball was in the right place. The curvature means it really finds its way through my anatomy to my G-spot with absolutely no thought on my part. If you’re someone who has trouble finding their pesky G-spot, try this. It almost homes in on it and once it has found it, the slightest movement does the trick.

Not only does the curve allow for that wonderful G-spot action, but it also combines with the length to make the toy very easy to use. The end you’re not using becomes the handle and that curves back towards you over your mons to provide an easy grip without much effort to stretch.

Whilst the small end slips inside easily, I find I need to work up to the big end. Make sure you’re relaxed and worked up enough for it. I find the big end is a similar but different sensation to the small end; it rubs and prods your G-spot the same way, but it’s also more filling, really pushing you open as it stimulates you. It may be too big for some, and again remember that the material makes it seem bigger than it is, but it’s something you’ll likely be able to work up to, even if you can’t manage initially. And even if you never use the big end as anything more than a handle, this toy is amazing. The small end is by no means the lesser end. It’s a frickin’ G-spot homing missile.

CONCLUSION

The Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo is a beautiful, stylish toy that will almost certainly last longer than you do before giving up the ghost. Made from stainless steel, it is body-safe, non-porous and sterilisable, but also unforgiving and very weighty. The unforgiving material may be a boon or a curse for you depending on your preferences, but the weight actually helps the toy move as it’s supposed to: rocking and dipping in tandem with its shape rather than thrusting. If you do suffer from joint pain or other conditions that might be a problem for handling a 1kg weight like this, you may wish to reconsider, however.

The shape of the toy and size of the different ends combine to produce an incredibly effective toy for hitting the G-spot and I found the toy’s accuracy uncanny. It’s definitely hit the top few of my list for G-spot toys. At a price of £49.99, it is very inexpensive for the sheer chunk of gorgeous metal that it is. And with two ends providing different experiences, it’s certainly worth the cost. Even considering the small end alone, this toy is amazing.

Team the Luxury Curved Stainless Steel Dildo with your favourite clitoral vibrator (I recommend the We-Vibe Tango, as always)  and you’ll have a fantastic time. I use my Luxury Steel Dildo this way and the orgasms are intense and plentiful, leaving my heart pounding and my body limp. You can get yours now from Bondara. ♦

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